Hi!
Totally new to all this but am hoping for people's opinion on something. I have no friends with children/step children to ask.
Basically, my husband's ex has a "friend". She won't call him a boyfriend as she says that's when it all gets complicated (they have already split once before, not long after she introduced him to my step son). She now says they are just friends, but she is always with him and he is always around my step son.
We have good reason to believe that her friend has been banned from driving due to driving under the influence. We have a very reliable source. He also moved back in with his mother and she takes him to work every day and picks him up. The ex also drives him everywhere. Even waking step son up at ridiculous times at night to pick him up (he hates it). We believe the ban must be due to end soon as our step son has been telling us that he is planning on buying a new flashy car.
The point I'm trying to get at is, would you be happy with this man driving your son/step son around straight after a driving ban? Are we right to be cautious, or do you think his ban is enough and he has done his time so to speak?
Maybe I'm overreacting, but was just wondering what others would think if they were in our position.
Thanks!