Would anyone be willing to advise off-board, please?

[pumpkinfest]

I could really do with some advice about our constantly strained step-family situation.

I have made a difficult decision in relation to our step-family. Part of me feels awful about it, but I felt awful in limbo not making a decision, and continuing to put DS and I through regular misery. That old damned-whatever-you-do law of step-parenting, I feel …

Anyway, our circumstances are pretty specific – potentially identifying – and so I wonder if any of you seasoned step-parents on here would be open to offering advice off-board, or if anyone knows of a support line or other source of discreet advice that is just for step-parents?

Thanks.

Hi Pumpkin ... if it's support and advice you're after on a closed, members only board, I'd recommend the British Second Wives Club -

www.bswc.co.uk/

You do have to pay a small annual fee, think IIRC it's £18, but it's totally confidential as casual viewers can't view any of the boards - and it's, IME, a very supportive place.

Thanks so much catsmother. That sounds ideal - I'm now registered!