AIBU? Pee on the toilet.

[notthegirlnextdoor]

DSS is 11. My DDs are 5 & 3. Its been a problem for a while now but until I was 100% it was DSS, I couldn't decide how to act on it. Everytime he uses the toilet, he doesn't put the toilet seat up, and he pees ALL OVER it. He's only here 4 days a month, more during holidays, and it only occurs when he's here, and after he's been to the toilet.

Am not sure how to broach it with DH. I have zero experience with boys other than my almost 4YO DN. AIBU to expect DSS to either lift the seat or clean the seat?

You don't have to sit in it, you get used to wiping the seat or shouting for someone to come and clean up after themselves before you sit down.

The act of sitting in someone's pee is revolting. Not the child. It's a very harsh word, would you describe a child as disgusting? You are revolted by what they have done, the child is not revolting

I have a step son who does this! It's really not something to worry about OP, most boys do it. I'd say it's his dad's job to teach him willy-related etiquette, but you can always remind him yourself because it's not really a big deal. If he persistently doesn't remember after reminders stick a sticky note to remind him above the loo.