Hi everyone, have not posted for a while but things have been tough. Me and DP got separate flats as living with the kids was causing us to fight all the time. Now he tells me he can't live separate lives - one with me one with kids. He thinks the future looks too tough. So it is over. Can't quite believe this is happening - after all the pain and heartache it was for nothing. At least I learned never ever to fall in love with a man with kids. The only good thing in this mess of my life