Drama at the school play! More than on stage...

[ticktocktammy]

You might have seen my other post. But this morning all too typical event. DSS invited his Dad, me and Grandma to school play. The ExW, who is also planning to go with her M&D but wont "allow" DP to attend any school events, declares we are "banned" because of me so DSS sends text that I cant come and DP and Gran drop out too. So school drama turned into more of a vindictive-Ex horror show yet again...Have not responded to any of them. Is this best approach?

In your previous post you said you didnt want to meet your step children or have their emotional problems inpact on your own son.

I quote "A good time to meet them would be NEVER" ??

I find this thread confusing having read your previous one.

Also, how could you have been accused and reported for abusing them when you have never met them?

I'm not sure that a school play, with the mother present, would be the best choice for a first meeting.

littlemmmm: yes the police also spotted that that abusing a child who you have never met is not possible! plus the date ExW claimed I had abused her son I was abroad so maybe she should have put a little more planning into the lies she told to the police who dismissed it all and called social services to work with ExW...
re play, after being softened up on MN, DP (And grandma) persuaded us to meet (theres discussion on this in the thread).