DSD8 and myself have been fine but occasionally DSD does make disparaging and hurtful comments towards me.
Tonight, after a stressful week at work and all day of ignoring said comments I did explode and say 'ENOUGH' in the KFC car park. DP then decided to throw his meal in my footwell and drive off.
It was trivial what DSD had said. Apparently my armpits need a lawnmower to get through them, (they don't by the way), but this had been said, at full volume around ASDA previous and it was wearing thin with me by then. DP did not pull her up about it, even though he does this if my DS14 or DD4 are rude to him.
He drove off, in true P'eed off man speed because as usual, I was just being a moody b**ch. He is now in bed after cooing over DSD and telling her that I have been 'hormonal'.
I am so sick of his pandering to DSD whilst chastising my children, (as the other adult in the house I believe he should be respected), that I am ready to walk.......tell him to F ......oh he can take the Fing dog as well.
I just don't get it...his parenting skills with my kids and we are on the same page.
Once a fortnight he turns into someone who I do not respect as a parent or a partner.
Crap parenting: eg: DSD8 eats with her mouth open and cannot use a knife and fork.
DSD8 does not eat ANY fruit or veg.....I will hide this in her food when cooking
DP finds it funny that both himself and DSD chuck McDonalds, or other litter out of the window of the car after eating, (I hate littering),. This probably explains why DSD does not pick up after herself.
DP / DSD will often spend the entire weekend in PJs. Usually eating sweeties.
DP/ DSD find it funny to PUMP in my face, even though I have told them I do not like it.
DP hates when my DD4 whinges and has a singy songy voice yet is completly hypnotises by his own daughter who has 'that voice' all weekend.
DSD has a rather strange fixation upon her Dad. Every fortnight her private parts are ' irritated' and she calls him up to the bathroom to apply Sudocreme.
DSD had a thing about only sleeping with DP on the sofa..I have now changed that but..he now has to put his t-shirt on her and then when he goes to bed, another one next to her.
In the morning they have to have 'bed time cuddles'. I have to be out of the room for this. This can go on for over an hour and DP can't understand why I get so P'd off when I am trying to get ready for the day.
DSD is great when she is just with me .......DP turns her into a blathering idiot and both her parents need to teach her some manners. Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh. I think that the double standards in line with what I expect from my children and the obvious 'can do no wrong' from DPs own child are going to cause many a night of friction in the future.
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coolmango · 22/12/2012 03:53
Do you think so thecat? Makes me so 
when I respond to THOSE threads !
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Boxy is real too. It's not that she's not.
It's that she chooses to stay in this really unhealthy relationship and just keeps coming back with the same thing over and over and over. Never takes in anything that's said and never makes changes in her life.
There's a limit to how much people can do that before they really have to just accept the life they've chosen.
I know! 
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