I have posted in the past on here about problems with Disney dad behaviour with older DSC's and fears over moving in together and problems escalating and was warned on here that my DP would always choose DSK's over me which i must admit got me down a bit. Luckily I took a chance and would like to let you all know it worked out well, he has stopped his odd behaviour, we dont put up with any tantrums or spoilt behaviour and whilst i know they will always be a part of his life they are not able to control or ruin our life together :) By the way they are now 19 and 17 years old so it was not too much to expect anyway. Just thought it might help others to read that it doesn't always go badly!