gotta lol at this, dh was told I was a good mum by someone

[2shoes]

who hasn't met me or dc's........
why cos I have a disabled child and kept her...........

good lord. People just don't think about what they're saying do they?

OMG! What the hell do you reply to that?

Words fail me :/

I don't know whether to laugh or cry tbh

what? What exactly was she implying? That you should have put her back where she came from?

Sorry. I'm having a bad night but that has made me .

FWIW I think you're a good mum and I haven't met you or your dcs!

it was a man.
dh gets told this when they hear that dd has cp, tbh I don't think they mean to be nasty..and I am a good mum lol

I have had the same comment from my mums boy friend , felt like punching him in the face. I also hate it when peoples say 'how do you cope? i could never cope if it was me'of course you would bloody cope (you have to).

And 2shoes, you are a great mum (and i have never met you).

That one gets me too - I always want to say 'well why don't you give me some bloody help then' ... besides, if this is coping, then I'd hate to see what not coping is like (that's not meant to sound as pathetic as it does but you know what I mean).

Yes, someone said to me, 'well I'd never be able to do what you do'

I wanted to scream that they would if it was their life 24/7 as you get a lot of practise and why don't they actually test out their stupid theory and offer to try it out for a day.