. I posted about how badly affected my family is going to be, and it seems to have turned into a free for all about how irresponsible I am etc. etc. for daring to procreate when DP is a low earner and I have a disability and DD has problems too. It's a good job I can take these things at face value and not get too flouncy lol. The thread's called OMG if anyone wants a laugh at some of the views of other MN'ers!