Emergency review, postponed a month ago due to a lack of paperwork. Sit has collapsed dramtically at school to the extent that ds2's entire class has ahd to be segregated rom ds1 at breaktimes to ensure their safety, ds1 has also had an appt amde for referral to CAMHs for a rapidly escalating eating disorder and ds1 has been stealing to fund obsessions with raffles at teh school and attacking DH when chastised or called to account.
I did ahve a long chat with a specilaist Pstch at Uni who workd with asd kids with LD and challenging behaviour and when we plotted out his issues it became clear tehre was an almost complete lack of executive function going on- everything seems down to impulse control and disorganisation: the hitting / binge eating / obsessions / stealing and general lack of ability to self organise (which teh school has failed to carry through their promises on dealing with)- I ahve told LEA that I am prepared to postpone review if they can force school to have DS1 seen by Ed Pyswch or call in teh specilaist asd teacher who is desperate to see him but has not been called upon, so we will see.
I wrote a rather embarassing email report today for the LEA lady but truth is I can't say anyting as a certainty except that ds1 has been let down, school cannot cope and his needs are escalating. oh and thast he rpe3sents a H&S risk to the other children at the school and that whilst MS seems sutable on paper we increasingly doubt that.