That's it really! I noticed a message from AquariusMum in 2007 when she recommended an OT in Surrey. I've googled the name and found out she used to work at the Maple Unit in Kingston hospital. But I haven't been able to find any contact details for her, and AquariusMum must have moved on or namechanged as there aren't any messages from her from 2008 onwards. So if anyone else can help that would be great.
thank you