DS is in bed , so is dd.
And i feel like the worst mum.
I have been shouting at them (especially ds) all day long.
DH has been putting a new floor down across the whole of downstairs and everything was upside down.
DH wanted us out of the way, so i took the kids upstairs thinking they were going to play in their room ... fool me!
ds was running round shutting all the doors , jumping on my bed, filling up the sink in the batroom and getting water everywhere, emptying the airing cupboard as i was trying to tidy it up, whislt dd was getting everything out of my bedside cabinet,... a total nightmare!!!
Then i got fed up , i was hoping the rain would stop so i could take them to the park but no chance.
Back dowstairs , havoc again , they were constantly in DH 's feet, or touching the tools ,... we were both yelling at them.
Now dd is still a baby at 14 m, and ds is 3y 8m , but asd , and DH and i sometime "forget" that ds can be difficult and doesn't listen to us very well, and that he can't help being a bit naughty when we are not giving our full attention, plus i think his over excitability today was also due to the chaos in the house , the new floor,...
DH and i need to be more patient , and when we get stressed out we just cannot find the calmness and patience ds deserves.