Hello all,
Thanks for your replies but I missed them!
Just got back. We live quite near so its not a long journey. OH dropped us off and picked us up (so sweet of him).
I came over a bit emotional like a soppy mare. Its the first time I have taken DS2 to a proper special needs event. He has learning difficulties and severe eczema but I have never really been sure if SN applies to him. I felt a bit of a fraud in the past if I took advantage of any SN things.
Now he is 6 and his 'differences' are so much more obvious and he is SEN I suppose I am dipping my toe in a bit. Its not that I have been in denial or anything, I just didnt want to misuse services IYSWIM.
Anyway back to the point - it was so lovely being somewhere among families that just smiled at DS. He has loads of sulks and meltdowns, you have to make him encourage him do things, you have to repeat stuff over and over. Plus I have to do skin care wherever we are. His skin was v.bad today so he was very red and inflamed.
We didnt get any or looks and it was fantastic. There were no laughs at me saying 'oh good waiting/looking/listening!' I was so much more relaxed with him and I know that helped with his behaviour.
It was a lovely day.
There was me, DS2 and DS3. DS2 is mixed race with dreadlocks and bad eczema, DS3 was in his great big ol pram and I was saying 'Oh lovely looking!' a lot (and oh flipping shut up about the blooming bouncy castle).
So if you saw that little group,it was us!
I hope you all had a good time too. We will definately be going next year