Please please please someone help us!!! This is a genuine request for help.
My dd is now 4.5 has been under the care of PCT since Oct 2007 with speech and language, Occupational Therapists and Physio. She has suspected Sensory Integration Dysfunction (sensory Processing Disorder). Speech and Language in our area is atrocious-staff shortages, people leaving, locums and now children therapists who seem barely out of nappies themselves. Most recently we went to attend an appointment (even though I'm suffering severe sickness due to pregnancy) and the therapist didn't bother turning up. The recetionist made up some cock and bul story about us not having an appointment and the therapist has not called us back even though we had been waiting for out block of therapy sessions since nov 08!!! Our OT is even worse. Has no sensory integration experience and has been bumbling along since the start without having a clue what she is doing. She most recently sent us a sensory diet which consisted of activities my dd is hypersensitive to and would either hate or be petrified of and is expecting her to conduct each activity for 20 minutes even though she has an average attention span of 3 minutes.
A private OT suggested we try and get our LEA to pay for private OT on the basis of the educational benefit but our LEA is not having any of it and has passed the buck back to the PCT who literally have not OT's working in the borough who have the relevant experince or qualifications.
I'm 3 months pregnant, have been signed off with hypermesis and throwing my guts up all day, whilst being kept up all night stressing about how to get the support we need for my dd. What other routes are there to get the help we need. We've now resorted to requesting help from charitiies but officially what can be done? I would love to sue. Has anyone been in a similar situation and advice what paths I should consider taking? One way or another we are in desperate need of the therapy but can't afford to pay ourselves. In the meantime my dd's development is getting more and more delayed.
Please help with any suggestions!