I have borrowed a Safe Space Voyager Travel bed (£2.5K!!!), had it shipped up the country at a cost of £90 and bought 2 pairs of swimming trunks for ds from Incy Wincy which cost me £40 but are well worth it. we are off to Wales for a week in the rain with DH, DS, 4xDC's and ex DH as well . We managed to get 2 apartments out of the family fund grant at Hafan y Mor-never been before but I dont really care!! Hopefully DS will sleep in the Voyager and if he doesnt he cant get out anyway (just like at home and I have packed the melatonin) and fingers crossed ex DH will take some responsibility for him (and maybe all the others)for a few days-he is getting a free holiday after all and I WILL ACTUALLY GET A HOLIDAY THIS YEAR!! {grin]