I went to a talk by Wendy lawson last night, hosted by S.Glos NAS. Wow! This was amazing.
She was diagnosed as an adult with Aspergers syndrome, after the diagnosis of her son, and understanding her own 'diffability', as she calls it, has transformed her life.
Her focus was mainly how many of the difficulties of autism are due to monotropism (single attention), and difficulties with sensory intergration. She writes poetry and has a fantastic sense of humour.
I am looking at my own DS with fresh eyes this morning!
This is a link to her website
www.mugsy.org/wendy.
Please take a look.