a very good freind of mine, has just had to go through the awful stage of deciding what will happen to her dd. her dd is 20..
well after a lot of soul searching her dd is now in residential care.
and they are all happy, her dd loves it, the family have adjusted and now have her home regulary and are all much more relaxed. she sent me pics, her dd does look really happy.
I am so pleased for my friend and her family.