I have yet to find a disabled toilet that is suitable for changing my sons pads. He is 15 and still in nappies and I don't see that changing. I have never come across a public toilet that accomodates a fixed bench on which to change adults. Have you ever tried to deal with a dirty nappy with a DS standing up??? - well don't try it - it's a nightmare! Having the rails etc is fine if they have all been fitted correctly, having a toilet big enough to get a wheelchair in and turn around is another bugbear. I end up having to take a towel with me and change him on the floor - not very dignified and hygienic atall. (that's if there is room with the wheelchair too)
I wonder if I ever asked a consultant/paed/GP to change his/her son/daughter/grandchild on the floor of the public or hospital toilet what their reaction might be - one of total horror and disbelief I would imagine - but it's ok for us to do???
Anyone ever had a good experience and can name a wonderful diabled friendly toilet in the country???