My dad is 64 this week, probably has Aspergers (retired engineer, computer boffin, DIY 'innovator', about 3 emotions, superstrong and feels no pain, currently re-concreting my patio for fun) like my DS. I've not been organised enough this year to find out in advance what incredibly specific thing he actually wants and order it, due to having a baby the other week. Similarly at Xmas I was puking too much to do more than buy him some interesting meat from the butcher and some posh chocolate.
What do you get your adult AS rellies or indeed your NT dads and FILs?