She has been telling me that i treat the dc like babies and that's why they have autism. Apparently forcing them to hug people and some time in the army would cure them. I pointed out that Dc2 can't join the army because of his previous suicide attempt but apparently that was "all a big misunderstanding" and " they'll be changing the rules on that soon anyway".
The daft thing is that her son (my dh) has autism too.