DD (6) started new school last September. We hated the local special needs school, which has a terrible reputation and after visiting it twice can see totally why. So we elected to send her to the next nearest which is a wonderful school and is in total just another 4 miles further. Of course we were refused transport as DD wouldn't be 'attending the nearest appropriate school' even though I listed the reasons I didn't like the nearest school which were a big deal as I didn't think they would be able to cope with DD particular problems but all to no avail.
We certainly didn't realise the enormity of taking DD to this school, it is financially killing us, our business has recently gone tits up and with all the recent price hikes in petrol we are not sure how much longer we can do this. I did write to the LEA asking/begging for some help, even just the petrol allowance as if she was attending the local school, but they just keep coming back with the crap "because she doesnt attend the nearest appropriate school" bugger off basically . I really don't know which way to turn as we just can't afford to do it any more, but desperately don't want to send her to the local school either.
Apparently the local LEA have changed their policies or whatever as I have been advised by the local Parents Partnership, which would make it virtualy impossible to win over them.
Has anyone been in this situation and actually got anywhere??
TIA