and I need to know how to spend it to the best advantage.I am hoping you can help as I am not sure what sort of thing is available to ds who is 7 and has as.He already has funding for a saturday club once a month to give ds2 and us some respite and I am hoping to get FISS which is the supernanny type thing to come into the home for 12 wks to help deal with issurs there.Please could you tell me the sort of respite,help etc that you get for your dc.Want to spend the money wisely and get the best for ds.Thank you