Hi Yurt, don't know if this will be any help or not. I was flicking through mum's Sunday Express and there was an article about the Parker family and their son Christopher who is severely autistic. Anyway, the bit that caught my eye was "A bomb-proof coating has been applied to the windows in their sun room to stop Christopher smashing the glass with his head"
I haven't a clue what this coating is but given your recent problems with DS1 and windows I thought you might be interested. I've tried and failed to find the article online for you but it was in today's Sunday Express under 'features' and the article was written by David Paul. The boy's father, Charles Parker has written a book called 'Tell it as it is'. Sorry I can't be more help.