Young teen sex images on phone

[Ilovethewild]

My 11ds has a mobile and today I found 2 similar websites open on his phone that have sexual pics on them, naked women, quite raunchy images. (He usually clears his history all the time). He knows i check his phone, he is not glued to it, no sm yet, not even WA.
I was shocked.
ds is autistic and immature but is a growing boy.

i need to talk to him about this but need some helpful advice.
I don’t want to shame him but also don’t want to normalise these images.
imo he’s too young for them, porn is damaging to women. I know he has sexual feelings,
no adult male around, so it’s me to have the chat.
I have had sexual chats before, he has books about his body, puberty etc.

but this feels hard for me, not really sure how to do it, any advice?

If they are just naked women. Be thankful.
I didn't limit my daughter's phone as I was so naive. There must be some filters you can put on.
I didn't. And I regret it. I have no idea what she has seen.

Others need to advise. Can't shame him. Be careful and gentle. But limit what he can access. If you can. Also never leave the phone all night with them.

Yes thanks, he has only had the phone a few months, and I charge it overnight so he doesn’t have it then.
i will look at filters, here was me thinking no social media was the way forward.

I suppose it’s about remaining open while talking about sexual feelings.

This should not be on the sex board. Your son is 11. I’m going to ask for it to be moved to a more appropriate board.

You need to put tighter security measures on DS’s phone and tell him to stop clearing his history otherwise you will remove his phone.

Get in touch with school so you know what messages he’s had there. They might have resources you could use or refer to. Also using common language could help have a smoother conversation.

They can access porn on safari or google.
Get a safeguard.