you know i have spent years getting my three to use the toilet wipe then flush it and then wash there hands and my girls are ten my son is seven, we have had pictures and everything, then DD got from carboot sale for 50p bear in the blue house potty time video, they all watched it a couple of times and they are now all doing it really well, the power of videos, anyone have any videos that do turn taking, sharing and not waking the whole house just because you have woken at 4am !