Help, I am feeling totally unreasonable

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I have an attck of the grumps today and want to kill everyone who dares complain about life with a 'normal' child. argh.
Am I normal?

unfortunately not 2shoes. It was a beauty.

wow glad i missed that. there are some realy selfish people aout ther. needmorecoffee that is terrible

don't want to put people off buses here! I loathe stinky smelly cars and one of them killed ds1's teacher at the weekend.
We don't have a car for enviro/ethical reasons.
Its not buses that are the issue, its the selfish norms on them.
And obviously not all norms are selfish, patronising or hostile. Some of my best friends are norms. But even they say stupid things like 'how often do you go out for dinner with dh?'. Like never. Who would babysit a severely disabled child? or they complain over a tiddly lack of sleep for one night.
And yeah, I know problems are problems but some days I just want to grab people and say 'ffs, that is not a bloody problem, quit whining and be grateful!'
I used to be a clinical psychologist ya know.....