DDs classmate has some form of muscular dystrophy, he can sit up using a back support and eat unaided but cant walk or crawl. He zips about in an electric wheelchair sometimes when the terrain is suitable, which it mostly isnt in this town...
Will probably just get him what i would any other 4 yo - a simple board game or maybe one of those observation boxes for lookng at insects or similar - but is there something i could get him that he or his parents would really appreciate?