Do i fight for add diagnosis?

[Bingeslayer]

Pretty convinced my 11 year old Dd has AsD,been bad for 5 years,spoken to Dr and school both feel as she is high functioning there's no issues but home life is misery.

I haven't discussed with dd,that's part of my concern,she doesn't realise my concerns,I'm worried if we go down this road that she'll feel different to other children,Not sure she does in herself.

She is 11, she is going to notice she's not the saame as her peers.