Private dr for referal complex Dd ADHD poss asd? End of my tether please help

[Waitingforsleep]

Please someone help me.
I can't take camhs anymore. I'm broken.
I have been taken down the asd path for years and keep having asdos tests which say anxiety not asd.
I now believe Dd may have ADHD as reading the profile it really fits. I can't get anyone to help me.
Camhs now say they want to see Dd again in another year and are looking at asd again but I don't agree with some of the things they are saying.

So then- who can I go to myself? I'm going to pay. I have had enough. Can't do the maudsley or gosh as that's nhs I think..

Anyone? Tried to find dr Judith Gould details but can't see them anywhere

Can you pester the GP or your community paediatrician (if she is under the care of one) for a referral to St Thomas's Hospital (still NHS)? We found them really good for really detailed ASD diagnosis (he already had ADHD diagnosis).

Will look that up thanks, please keep them coming in I just can't carry on like this. I need people to understand girls, high functioning maybe asd may be ADHD maybe both may be neither. This has been years and I can't take any more

Lorna wing centre?
Daphne keen?

We were seen at the Wolfson centre at GOSH on the NHS . We got a referral from the community paediatrician. They don't accept GP referrals