Short story. DS2 is 11 and started a senior school this September. It wasn't the school we wanted (3rd choice), but he has lots of friends there which is a positive and it is local, so no bus to negotiate. The SEN department has a reputation for not being great, but I am trying to go in with a positive mindset, and there is a newish SENCO (started Sept 15). DS1 is in year 10 at the same school and had done very well (he has no SEN, so I've not had to deal with this so=ide of the school so far).
So, DS2 has diagnoses of dyslexia and ADHD. He takes tablets for the ADHD and he is no bother at school, not naughty or rude (though he is when the tablets wear off at home). He lacks concentration, has poor short term memory, and rushes work, and only wants to do the minimum. I think this is partly to do with the dyslexia, as he finds writing hard, as well as organising himself and his thoughts over anything other than the very very short term very difficult.
DH and I have met the SENCO at the school, and she seems very nice. She says that school have been observing DS2 and he doesn't show any needs at all. Therefore he isn't on the SEN register, doesn't get any additional support, won't 'qualify' for anything extra.
When DS2 was at his primary, he didn't have a TA as it wasn't needed (once we got him started on his ADHD tablets), but he had lots of literacy interventions, was in a nurture group etc. We met with the SENCO regularly to check in on his academic progress and emotional wellbeing (he had few friends before we started the tablets and was quite anxious with low self esteem).
I agree that DS2 has settled well at secondary, but am really worried he isn't on anyone's radar. He is dealing with work at school ok, but looking at what he produces, it looks miles behind his older brother at the same age, yet DS2 is apparently 'very bright' according to primary school, just with 'barriers to his learning'.
I think as DS2 goes up the school he is just going to slip down and no-one is going to be bothered, just writing him off as a low/average kid because he can't write clearly or produce much work, whereas actually he is clever. I also worry that any ADHD behaviours he does show will be seen as naughtiness or carelessness, and not recognised as being things he has to stuggle with.
So, do I need to worry? Should school be doing more/something? Or if he seems to be doing 'ok' at the mo, despite these two SEN, should I assume school will intervene if necessary? Anyone got any wise words for me? Or have a kid with dyslexia or ADHD who also doesn't get any additional support? TIA