I'm going to be calling SENDIASS tomorrow hopefully to get some advice but thought I'd ask here too...
DS2 is 3 and has (among other things) quite a severe speech disorder. His SALT put him forward for a place at a nursery which offers S&L support to start this September. I found out on Friday that he's been given a place. It's an amazing opportunity for him. There are only 10 places for the whole county so he's been very lucky.
Here's my problem...it's approx 20-30mins by car, some of which is on the motorway, in good traffic. As he'll be starting at 9 every morning (no option for afternoons) we'll be travelling in rush hour so it'll take considerably longer. I will then have to wait around for 3hrs before taking him home again as a) I can't guarantee there won't be a problem on the motorway which will mean being late to pick him up and b) it'll cost double the petrol if I go home and then come back which I can't afford.
My other problem is that I have both physical and mental health problems and doing this every term time day for a year is going to push me to the limit. In fact, there are days when I may not even be able to drive so he'll have to miss nursery. I'm a lone parent so this really will be down to me every single day.
The nursery have said that the LA used to provide transport but they stopped doing it a few years ago and now don't offer any for non statutory education. Does anyone know if they're allowed to do that (quite aside from the fact that if I didn't drive he'd be excluded from the opportunity completely - it's not a simple journey by public transport and not one I could manage)? Is there any way I could question that?
I did start a thread about whether I'd want him to go on transport when I thought it was available. But now he's been offered a place and the reality is starting to sink in I'm starting to realise just how difficult this is going to be.