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I am so nervous, dd been invited to play at her friend's house

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blossomhill · 09/01/2007 18:37

Eeekkkkkkkk

It is a friend of hers from the unit so not sure why I am so nervous. He has been to play here and now dd has been asked.
I feel so nervous all of a sudden. The mum just rang and I said yep fine but I think 2 hours will be enough and she said let's see.
I keep thinking what if she can't wipe herself properly, or makes a mess.

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

I am being silly as her friend has similar SN to dd.

What is wrong with me, why am I so anxious?

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lourobert · 09/01/2007 19:06

Because its such a massive thing isnt it...but she will do just fine Im sure. She'll do you (and herself) proud!!!

How exciting......!

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blossomhill · 09/01/2007 19:08

thanks lourobert, i just feel so nervous and i shouldn't as i am so happy she is making friends.

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lourobert · 09/01/2007 19:38

Thats one of the thoussands of worries that I have....what if my ds doesnt get invited to any parties blah blah blah. Enjoy every minute I bet your little one will!!

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colditz · 09/01/2007 19:45

Your friend's mum will know exactly what she is in for. She will enjoy herself. The mum wouldn't have offered if you didn't want to. Don't frettle about it.

TeeCee · 09/01/2007 19:48

Bless you. So pleased she has a playdate. It'll be fine and you're being normal.
Big Love xxxxxxxxxxx

Dinosaur · 09/01/2007 21:08

Really pleased for your dd, Blossomhill! Quite understandable that you're anxious, though - it's a big event for her and for you. But it sounds ideal in terms of going to a house where your dd's needs will be well understood.

If it's any consolation, my absolutely nt DS2 went on a playdate to someone house recently and asked his friend's mum to wipe his bottom ! I was so mortified!

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blossomhill · 09/01/2007 21:20

Dino ~ lol at ds2. That's the thing isn't it, kids will be kids!

I don't know why I am so anxious as her friend's parents are so happy that their son now has a friend. Infact there are 3 of them and we call them the muskateers
Funny how all the sn kids stick together isn't it? I think they just feel more at ease with each other

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2shoes · 09/01/2007 21:21

I do hope it goes well(which it will)

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blossomhill · 09/01/2007 21:22

Thanks 2shoes, I hope so. It's just letting go isn't it? I find that quite hard but am getting better.

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2shoes · 09/01/2007 21:48

blossomhill still waiting your rejoining

onlyjoking9329 · 09/01/2007 21:54

how exciting, bet you are more nervous than DD. i have been moved to tears when kids started getting play dates, i don't think perents with just NT kids quite understand why i end up in tears they probably think i am a bit wierd

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blossomhill · 10/01/2007 07:38

Sounds weird but I would be so much more nervous if her friend didn't have sn as well. Makes me feel mor esafe iykwim

2shoes I keep trying to and it won't let me! I have almost given up to be honest. Not sure what the problem is but it doesn't like my email address!

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blossomhill · 13/01/2007 22:57

H everyone

Well it all went well

Infact the mum noted how similar dd and her ds is, so let's hope dd has found a little soul mate

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Dinosaur · 15/01/2007 21:01
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blossomhill · 15/01/2007 21:05

They are going to sn beavers together on Friday.
Love is in the air
He is nearly 2 yrs older than dd btw!

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2shoes · 15/01/2007 23:04

i have emailed you have an idea what was wrong.
so glad things went well

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