Grrr, after our disastrous yr at secondary and bearing in mind I missed my opportunity to do a complaint to primary, I decided to request Dd3's school records! I was going to use the info to put together a complaint!
They have emailed me today saying they are ready and we have been invoiced over £60 which has to be paid on collection!!
I am not working at the moment and am on carers allowance so its alot of money 
I wish I could just walk away but its so wrong and it will keep happening to kids like Dd3, I dont know what to do now! This school is certainly not poor and it has made me angry!