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My baby is 5 tomorrow, what a lot of emotiions going on

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TEEstheCEEsontobejolly · 16/12/2006 21:44

5 years, blimey, 5 years!

5 years tonight I had just downed a whole bottle of castor oil and was cuddled up on sofa with D watching a DVD. Little did I know what twists and turns our lives were about to take.

At 3.57am - 6.5 hours time - I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. She had huge saucer eyes, black as black. I knew straight away she had Down's syndrome. Can't put into words the shock but you all can imagine a bit I know.

No phonecalls made to friends and family, a lot of tears and then shock sent us numb and we both managed to sleep.

5 years on.

My little Lottie. God what a character! What a fiesty, funny, strongwilled, argumentative, sweet, loving, naughty, giving little bundle of joy she is. God she really is the most special gorgeous little girl, she really, really is.

Never thought she'd still not be walking, but we are getting there, slowly but surely. Never thought a lot of things.

Can't believe I'm a mum, can't believe i'm a mum to a 5 year old, can't believe i have 2 girls, that I have D in my life - still (! , can't believe I'm a mum to a girl who has Down's syndrome, can't believe how lucky I am.

Happy Birthday Lotbags. Thanks you for being you, thank you for being you.

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SantasFattymumma · 16/12/2006 21:48

Aw thats lovely.

Happy birthday Lottie.

TEEstheCEEsontobejolly · 16/12/2006 22:16

Thanks SantasFattymumma.
Have drunk nearly a whole bottle of wine to myself and have now started on the cheese and biscuits in between blowing up ballons, not a good look!!!!!

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PollyLogos · 16/12/2006 22:23

You always write the lovliest things teecee!

Happy Birthday to Lottie.Hope she really enjoys her special day.

RTKangaSANTAMummy · 16/12/2006 22:28

Happy birthday Lottie

2snowshoes · 16/12/2006 22:32

lovely post
hope she has a brilliant birthday.

TEEstheCEEsontobejolly · 16/12/2006 22:34

Oh thank you, thank you, thank you.

It's quite a mad feeling isn't it, when your babies have birthdays. A 5th and a 1st.

Yep - think I might have a right good ole cry tonight!!!!

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olittletownofberolina · 16/12/2006 22:45

Happy birthday to your babies

2000milestoeidsvold · 16/12/2006 22:48

happy birthday to your 2 dd's

TEEstheCEEsontobejolly · 16/12/2006 22:51

Is there something wrong with me? Just had proper floods of tears!
Rang my mate and let it all out/

All those packed luches, all those nappies I'm still changing, all those baths, bedtime stories, here they are, here they are in this little 5 year old girl - this is what's it's all about, this 5 year old, this great little person I made.

God I'm emotional tonight.
Step away from the wine, step away!

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macwoozy · 16/12/2006 22:59

Wondeful, what a great post, I'm sure little Lottie has had a great birthday

saffy202 · 16/12/2006 22:59

I don't post a lot (not enough time) but I love to hear about Lottie. Your obvious love for her shines through your words.
Hope you all have a wonderful day

EmkanaCookTurkeyLikeICan · 16/12/2006 23:17

Happy birthday to Lottie - your love for her really shines through

TEEstheCEEsontobejolly · 16/12/2006 23:50

Thanks - night all, off to sleep and wake up to a 5 year old!

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TEEstheCEEsontobejolly · 16/12/2006 23:53

Can I just have one more little cry before I go?

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh dear...................... this motherhood lark...... don't be in on yr own with a big birthday the next day and do a bottle of wine to yourself is my advice.

Have head ache I've cried so much - how silly!

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HumphreyCushiONtheFirstNoel · 16/12/2006 23:53

I hope you all have a wonderful day tomorrow. Happy birthday, Lottie!

foxinsocks · 17/12/2006 11:06

Happy birthday Lottie! Hope you all have a fab day today.

Blossomgoodwill · 17/12/2006 11:11

Aww Happy Birthday Lottie. I agree 5 is a real milestone xxx

anniebear · 17/12/2006 11:38

arrrh, you have me filling up!!

That is so lovely

Hope you had a Happy Birthday Lottie, you big girl!!!!!!!!!!

anniebear · 17/12/2006 11:42

sorry

hope you HAVE a lovely Birthday Lottie

mum24boyz · 17/12/2006 11:44

ah that brought tears to my eyes aswell, i hope both you and lottie have a fantastic day, yes it is a big milestone, 5 yrs we have coped with our special little peeps, mine was 5 last month so i know where you are coming from, who knows what twists and turns life has in store for us eh, have a great day, am sure you are too busy now to be all emotional, or exhausted by the time you read this lol, and happy birthday lottie, hope you have a fab day. xxx

chonky · 17/12/2006 17:08

Oh happy birthday Lottie!

Teecee, you do always write the loveliest stuff.

DoesntChristmasDragOn · 17/12/2006 18:00

Ahhhh... Happy Birthday Lottie!

FioFio · 17/12/2006 19:39

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DINOsaurmummykissingsantaclaus · 18/12/2006 16:52

Happy belated birthday, Lottie! Lovely post, as ever, TeeCee!

COPPERfeelunderSantasTOP · 18/12/2006 17:07

Happy birthday, Lottie!

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