My child is nearly 5 and shown no sign of readiness for the toilet. He is quite content in sitting in a soiled nappy and never tells me when he has been. I have started potty training and am currently on day 2. He has had several accidents and no successes on the toilet. He is reluctant to wear pants and to sit on the toilet. I have watched him when he does wee and he seem oblivious. He just sits there and carries on doing whatever he is playing with. He fully understands what a toilet is and used for. He can pull down his pants and sit on there unaided, but wont. Do we pursaveer hoping he will crack it? How long do you wait otherwise?