Any advice would be appreciated.dd is3.5 and had severe speech delay. I went private after no answers from nhs and have had pda diagnosis. It makes so much sense. I suspected autism but didn't look at those particular. Ds however who I suspectedpfbeongpn spectrum went tocamhs etc but got nowhere is also likely to haveclassic autism according to paed. Feel absolutely shell shocked both children on spectrum.ilnow itcouldnemuch worse but o feel overwhelmed. 