DD is not diagnosed as yet, and up until now has coped fine, but she is starting to show signs of anxiety, so this is the point where I would like to get her referred. In the meantime I would like her to read about aspergers in girls (she is an advanced reader) Which book do you think would be best? I have the Tony Attwood book, but the language is too advanced for her. Rudy Simone, Girl with the Curly Hair, Tanya Marshall, do you think she would understand any of those?