Just sending love and hugs......

[Devientenigma]

Sorry I am an old poster, been reading some of my posts etc and just wanted to say, stay strong everyone x

Hi dev

How is ds? Last I remember, you'd finally managed to find good enough school (sorry if that wrong, it was a while ago!). How's it going? Hope you're ok too x

God, sorry rubbish typing there, am on iPad!

Hi again
Nice to 'see' you popping in. Is the school still ok-ish? And how are you doing- getting any rest yet, are the family well- and all the usual nosy questions.
We're ok- lost Tribunal but I have a cunning plan for ds1 schooling. Suspect smallest DS will also be getting a diagnosis of some sort but it can wait- no energy for dragging another dc to tedious and difficult appointments just yet

Hi devient its good to see you

Hi all, so sorry to hear about the tribunal Meir but cunning plans are great . Yes DS is still in the school, they seem to be working well so far even though DS is doing his best to get out of it. He's even went missing,from this school, tbh in always though that would of happened at the other one! It's still mostly on his terms but their strategies of getting him out are good. ATM he's using physically being sick, toiletting accidents, loosing his clothes etc to get away. The statement process is eventually being reviewed and the school about to be named. However we are having major issues with social services. But I suppose I've battled education for years what makes social services think I won't do the same lol. As for the rest of the family they are all the same.......hard work, ignorant and oppositional. My DD (don't know if you remember her as I didn't post much, ADHD and ODD) is hoping to move to London this time next year. Apart from DH diabities still not controlled and having had 2 car accidents (not at fault) in the last 3 months and me trying to loose weight and now have a gym membership and a sports bra, we are all good. Hope alls well with those who didn't say. will help too xxx

Ah yes, sounds familiar. Am highly impressed with your ds's stubborn persistence. where did he get that then Perhaps one day he might even turn that fantastic ingenuity towards learning the more transferable skills.

Hope the devient adults have inherited just enough oppositional traits to sort SS out nicely just as you did with education .

Fitness kick . My current exercise regime is regular lifting sessions.

Haha, yes I'm learning to be stubborn, bout time lol. Cake listings good as long as you remember to pull in your stomach and clench your buttocks I will be lurking for progress! You could always distract them with cake good luck xx

Lifting not listings !!

It wasn't meant to be a flying visit..........glad secondary is going good Polter I hope they keep up the good work. Thanks for the luck.

We've spent this week at home as he's refusing to go anyway fingers crossed we get him back to it sooner or later!

Hi dev. Just noticed you are back. Wishing you better luck for school next week.

Thanks NHMW hope everything's going ok with you and yours too