Please help me work out what to do 
I keep going round in circles and the 15 days is up on Wednesday. 
DS2 can't stay where he is as they are using punishment to force compliance - eg not motivated to remain in seat but punished for leaving it - and it is damaging his mental health.
I hoped that the proposed would at least match what he had at SA+ but it doesn't. The school did an about face when I applied for SA and he now has a proposed for a child with ASD but no problems in school. Six months ago the position was no suspicion of ASD but severe problems in school.
So the original plan was to finalise and appeal for Indi placement.
This clashes with the timeline of my phd submission and I can't change this as I took leave for DS1s tribunal. I can't imagine doing both at the same time
Also we are moving house. The landlord wanted an extra £200 a month. DS1 boards but DS2 will need a new school from Sept.
Also there is my mum who is being discharged to DB's today and has the DST for NHS continuing healthcare on Thursday. They have a month before they declare someone is in eligible and then the family has to appeal. As bad as SEN. 
What the hell do I do? I will post some more specific questions when DS2 has gone to school.