I was getting out of the lift at JL in MK today with dd when a boy jumped into the lift, pushed me out of the way slightly, at which I bristled until I saw that he had a t shirt on saying 'please be patient, I'm autistic.' I told his mother to come to mumsnet.com because there was a great special needs board. Anyway, if it was you, welcome. Hope you found us here ok. I said www.mumsnet.com as the lift door was closing!