My friend, for whatever reason won't post on here...I've told her about it and explained what a mine of support and information it is but she's just not ready. She asked me to.
Her son is almost 4 and in preschool. The preschool is attached to a very good mainstream primary and she wants him to attend.
He saw a paed last year who agreed he seems to have many symptoms of ASD she referred my friend to SALT who have seen him a total of three times.
The paed also said that she would inform the Autism panel and that they would observe him in his educational setting. This hasn't happened but an EP has been in and observed. The DS has no DX yet.
My friend spoke to the preschool teacher today and asked if she thought herdS would need a one to one in reception and the teacher agreed he would...."but it's a funding issue"
Friend is now panicking....she worries they will tell her he can't attend this school...what does she need to do? I've advised her to call the paed and ask about the panel and about getting a DX and also to make an appointment with the HT of the school to see what she thinks needs to be done...is there something else she needs to do? The school is in Wales.
I really want to support her all the way, she's had a bad year for other reasons other than her DS being flagged for ASD and she has little in the way of practical support.