really revolting dont know what to do

[redbull]

ds has a thing about you have to sniff his feet and make a BIG deal out of it and say "CHEESY" he finds it really funny,
well when he came home from school yesterday after a cuddle with him i went to start cooking dinner and he comes running in the kitchen holding out 2 fingers and said smell so i smelled and it was yuk, smelled of poo when i asked him where smell came from he said his bum, this is not like ds so asked whos bum he smelled and he told me it was ** at school.

what the F* am i to do, dont want to phone school AGAIN and say why has ds been smelling other boys fingers that have been in their pants and up their bum, sort of feel very mixed about this as if i dont do/say anything he will continue and he has no social skills so will carry on doing it not knowing whats wrong with it, ive caused shit loads of trouble at ds school allready, ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

HELP ME PLEASE

God thats a tricky one.

Will it pass?

If not I guess you hve to bite the bullet and bring itup

Are you sure it wasn't his own? (DS1 goes through phases of having a good old poke around, legs akimbo on the sofa- when we're out of the room obviously- it's yuk). Are they allowed to go to the toilets unaccomapanied at your son's school? I think you might need to approach the school, but why not just ask if its possible, say you think its more likely to be his own.

they go with a teacher at school i smelled his pooy smelling fingers thinking he had rubbed them on his feet and am meant to do the "CHEESY" thing, ds is just starting to understand who and where so i asked who bum smell he then replied a boys name in his class.

LOL jimjams ds does that as well, its really tricky as if it was his own smell at school i dont want him to be enbarresed of his body (dp was told NEVER to touch his winky when younger and has really suffered with his confidence with his body)
The school allready thinks im one of them fucking neurotic mums dont want to be their once again on the phone to them.

Redbull,

I'm goign to ask a vrey blunt question, and I apologise in advance, did his fingers smell because they'd been in a delicate area or becasue they'd been near it...

I only ask becuase the implications of one source of the smell are a it worse then the other IYSWIM!

It could you see be as simple as boy x was scratching his bum and it was a sweaty bum smell they were comparing, obviously its a habit that could do to be nipped in the bud, its just one of those not very socially acceptable things If however they're comparing a scent direct from source as it were, well obviously you need ot inform the school ASAP because hang ups or no hang ups thats one of those hobbies you can only do in private and it needs ot be an at home private not an at school private really...

I apologise if that sounds odd, my brains being sarcastic against my will too much lately... must be the heat.

completely understand what you mean emmalou78 thankyou