Judgement day is upon us......

[bishybashyboshy]

I have just received an appointment through the post from CAMHS, all observations and info has been collected. This is it! This is the moment we have been waiting for for almost 3 years, God I feel sick, but at the same time I feel as though all questions will be answered and relief is on the horizon. At the moment I am thinking towards the lines that it is me, but that's ok I can do something about that however gutted I may feel if that is the outcome. On the other hand if it isn't me I will have some kind of info to use to help my son. Wow I thought my emotions were mixed up when this all started but it really is nothing compared to what I feel like right now.

Hi bishy I am glad that you feel reassured. I know exactly what you mean about thinking your child's issues might be your fault.

Now that you know what you are dealing with, you can move forward.

Be prepared to feel a bit weird for a while, it is natural. I felt like I had been kicked! Even though we had been waiting for the Dx for a long time.

Be kind to yourselves and remember this doesnt change who he is it just gives you a signpost towards the best way to support him.

Good luck and am honking for you