ive named a free special school for ASD which costs 8.5 k per year. head met my son, we went to the open day, he has had all of his notes, LA visited the school in light that I am pushing for it to be named. before i named it i got a letter of them offering him a place.
once the tribunal process started sent them the form to complete that he has a place about 6 weeks ago. tehy are really dragging their heels sending it back and i dont know why. they asked for more paperwork which i duly sent, there is not some issue re the OT he may need, explained to them that the tribunal may order that it is an addition to the cost of teh school place to the LS if tehy are ordered to buy it in. he had a meeting today with someone and said he would phone me - the head is who i am talking about - anyway he didnt he sent me an email saying that they now want to see j in school and speak to his teachers. i have to send my form back by next friday with the names of my witnesses on and of course i want to name the head to give evidence about why his school can meet his needs.
i am panicking about these delays and how vague he is being. if he does a u turn and says they cannot meet his needs etc im up teh creek without the paddle, tribunal is in feb and i have no other school that i could name unless i went independent which is goingt o be 40k and the travel will be huge - there is no way i would win the economical use of resources so i am seriously worried. there are no special schools in county - there nearest maintained one is out of county and is full plus j is high functioning so a generic special school would not be good for him - i am so so stressed. how do the tribunal respond to parents asking part 4 to be changed but the reality is if this school says no i have no idea where i could go and the independents no doubt would want to assess him which with just weeks to go to christmas time is running out