Help, got involved with use of the R word in AIBU!

[EllenJaneisstillnotmyname]

Here, www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/1583887-To-not-know-what-to-say

Anyone fancy a bun fight?

always up for a bun fight

Cheers, Chundle. The OP has been 'educated' but some of the others have been using the old chestnut that retarded is a perfectly acceptable scientific term as in, fire 'retardant' or plants' growing late in the season are 'retarded' while the op said, 'I was being a bit socially retarded?'

oh theyre just being nobs arent they!!! it wasnt said in the sense of fire retardant was it!!!!! it was said in the 'retard' sense