the nearest thing i get to a hug......

[SheelaNeGig]

DD is sitting with her feet on my lap.

I'm not allowed to touch them.

But there they are.

and she just reached over and patted me!!!!!

she's after summat

d'aw

It is unnerving. She simply doesn't do touching.

Its quite nice.

Lovely for you :)

Oop. Shes gone. Normal service resumed.

I spent years grinding my teeth and desperate to sit on my own without her on top of me. Then suddenly she stopped. Now doesn't like touching at all. Do feet in lap is nice.

it's never a happy medium, is it

DD is either right in your face or pushing us away too, those hugs/moments are more special because of it