so apparently five year old DS's weird behavior is not ADHD (as I suspected), the EP thinks he has ASD, so he is being referred for a proper diagnosis, and hopefully will get extra support at school.
But, she also suspects I am on the spectrum too, (we talked about my childhood, strange behavoir and social problems). The thing is, since our chat it is like a huge weight has been lifted. I finally 'know' why I am different.
Have any other adults been diagnosed, is it worth it? Will I be laughed out of the GP surgery. I think the EP may be willing to write me a letter of support.