Hello
I posted earlier on a different subject and now would like to get some more advice :)
At the school my sons attend, they were granted a parking permit so I could park on the school grounds during pick up/drop off and any time that I needed to go into the school for medical reasons. However, on-site parking started to get abused by other parents, where people were entering without permits and made the environment very dangerous for all children on the site. Therefore the decision was made to lock the gates. Permit holders have to arrive before 8.30am and gates are re-opened at 9.10am and again at the end of the day 2.50pm to 3.30pm. My older son has a blue badge, and due to medication it is not always possible to get him to school that early. The school refuses to budge on this point, but my son is unable to walk any distance so parking outside the school is not really an option. I am therefore having to give medication in the carpark whilst waiting for school to open.
However, the biggest problem has come with my youngest son who is 4 years old and attends the nursery. He is severely autistic and struggles to walk any distance at all. He is also a blue badge holder. He starts nursery at 12.10 but the school have also decided to shut the gates at 11.45 to 12.30. Now this is really a problem for me. He literally is scared of walking outside. He is extremely sensitive to sound, scared of other people walking along, terrified of the rain and wind etc..
The problem I have though is that if I get to the school before the gates close at 11.45 he gets really distraught with just waiting in the car, and the school will not let him come in earlier even if I stay with him. If I brought him later after the gates opened he will miss lunch.
I understand why the school have taken this action, but at the same time it really is having a detrimental effect on my children. Also I am having to literally carry my son in at lunchtime from parking in a road a fair distance from the school.
I can't understand why they are not prepared to open the gates for me, I am the only permit holder on the premises at lunchtime. The school have stated they need to keep strictly to their policy and are not in any way helping me with the problem I have.
Would love to know your thoughts on this please x