DS2 has a statement for dyslexia, dysgraphia, APD and various associated things. He is due to go to 2ndary school in September. I asked the SEN team to name a local specialist, independent dyslexia school as his 2ndary school, they refused, I asked them to reconsider, they refused again.
Then I hired a solicitor and within 5 days the SEN team leader (never spoken to him before) called to say "oh, sure, we would have said yes anyway, we were just costing it, just please withdraw your appeal, we have to watch our numbers of appeals". I said OK - if you give him a taxi too, he said yes.
Obviously I am delighted beyond belief but also wonder - would they have agreed without the legal threats?