Oh my goodness - just an update and hopefully to those still fighting - keep going.
I have started many threads, with many questions and and times been desperate.
I received the appeal documents last week, this morning out of the blue an award letter after being turned down, reconsideration and appeal arranged.
I had absolutely bombarded them by email (so I had paper trail) pointed out their mistakes and basically said see you in court -although inside I was quacking and seen Doctor for stress.
Ds has been awarded high on both counts, backdated to July 2010.
Just wanted to share news to hopefully spur someone on who is feeling how I did and to thank you so much for your help.
Now I can get councelling and specialist advice to make him the man I know he can be